I feel that I'm wasting my life. How can I change this situation?

  1. Do something meaningful with your life. For yourself, for your parents, for your friends or people in general. Feel that feel of making a difference to anyone’s life.
  2. Have some direction of where you are moving towards. Have some aim. Be it a short term. But feel that enthusiasm in the morning to wake up for the fact that you can take more steps towards achieving that aim.
  3. Be nice to people. Talk to people. Help whenever you can anyone. But have a small circle of people who matter to you most like you, parents and few close friends. Spend time with them, be there for them, and cherish those moments. Don’t give priority to others at the cost of people who actually are important.
  4. Do not follow the crowd. Don’t think what everyone is doing is what you need to do. Don’t be in a rush all the time. Make your own life path by doing things you feel like doing. By doing things which you feel are right, By doing things which you feel are good for you. Do not compare with others. Just focus on improving your own life.
  5. Stop complaining and cribbing all the time about everything. I mean all of us have complains. Talking about them is okay, sharing sometimes is okay. Discussing to find out a solution is okay. But doing it all the time is not. That just creates negativity in you and outside. There are two ways to deal with it. Change that if you can. If not, make peace with it. Cribbing doesn’t help.
  6. Make a note of things that are important, most important to you and focus on them. Like yourself, your parents, family, your goals, your health, close friends, knowledge and so on. Just simplify your life.
  7. Be courageous. Nothing is more important than your life per se. What will you do with it, what joy it has if you don't live it. Stuck in a wrong relationship which just make you feel like trash, come out of it. Stuck in a wrong job, put in effort and come out of it, stuck with wrong people, let go of them. You are responsible for the betterment of your life, no one else.
  8. Be a little easy with life. Let go of past. Just try to learn from your past mistakes if you can, there is no point holding on to them. Don't be worried too much about future. Improve and give your best to present and it will take care of future as well. Don't be finicky about perfection in everything.
  9. Do not compromise on your worth. Be it at workplace, be it in relationships. Make your respect and happiness a priority. It’s in your hands. Don't take any wrong doing from anyone.
  10. Have a purpose. Having fun and being happy all the time is good. But just earning big, buying gizmos and spending time on vacationing and eating at 5 stars gives no satisfaction. I mean try to give back to the society in some form. Teaching to poor, taking care of your parents, feeding animals and so on, whichever way suits you.


Hope this helps :)

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