Do you think there is something that everyone should learn? Why?
Oh yes. I think everyone should learn how to enjoy solitude.
Why?
Because people might not be there with you whenever you want them to be.
Not to say that people are not important, relationships are not important but making our happiness a dependent variable on people and their actions and presence will only create chaos within you. You’ll be sad, unhappy and laid back whenever they won’t be there.
Learn to enjoy even if no one is there. Do whatever you want to. Learn to go out alone. Learn to enjoy a movie alone. Learn to go for walks alone. Learn to cook delicacies for yourself too.
Solitude is amazing. Once you start enjoying it, you’ll no more chase people.
You’ll no more cancel those movie trips or morning walks just because there is no one to accompany.
You’ll no more try too hard to keep people i.e. to say you’ll let friendships and relationships flourish on their own. People who want to be with you out of choice will stay back.
You’ll feel free. You’ll be happy in your life. You won’t have to look out for it. There is nothing more empowering than learning to be alone and liking it. Trust me.
:)
Comments
Post a Comment